Sunday, February 28, 2010
happy etsy-versary
Wedding Makeup
First of all, never buy your wedding day makeup online. Makeup looks different on every person that puts it on, and you are going to need to try a little on you before you get it. After all, you are not going to be able to do something with a lot of makeup that does not match your skin tone. On that same note, remember that most people do makeup wrong in the first place. This is because they put too much on to try and cover up their face. Well, makeup is not made to cover up your face, but is made to highlight your face. Remember this when doing your wedding makeup. Overdoing your wedding day makeup is going to give you that nice plastic look. Now won't that be nice?
If you are one of those people that normally does not like fake eyelashes, but you want them for that special day, then you better give them a few trial runs. Most wedding makeup styles do not let you in on this little tip, but fake eyelashes actually take a lot of getting use to. Remember that “big eyelashes” to you may only be small in photos so that is something else to think about as well. Also be sure that you find a brand of fake eyelashes that does good for you. This could mean that you have to go through a few different brands to find the ones that you truly want.
So you heard that bridal beauty spas use airbrushing to make everyone look pretty, and you want to try that? Well remember that you need your skin to be moisturized to even stand a chance at this working. Too many brides dry out their skin as a way to clear up blemishes. However, this will keep the airbrushed makeup from getting on smoothly. This leaves you with a very rough and old texture. Now, is that what you want for your wedding day? The best way to do this is to use a good moisturizer and to drink water; lots and lots of water. That's right girls, eight glasses of water is not only healthy, but it does wonders for your skin's moisture level.
For those ladies that are getting married during those hot months. Think about picking up some icy bags. Putting some ice bags in your cosmetic bags will keep your makeup from melting. This is a tip that works for people who are getting married or not. This is something that every women should not be without.
If you are going to get anything waxed, then you need to get it done about two days before your wedding day. If not, you are going to show up with redness and swelling all over your face. This happens often with eyebrow waxing.
Also, it is not a good idea to have your hair cut the day before your wedding! What if you do not like it? Is your hair going to grow back overnight? Of course not! You need to get your hair trimmed at least three weeks before the wedding. Do not do anything drastic this close to your wedding day. Remember, you want your groom to recognize you when you walk down that aisle!
These wedding day tips are going to help you look the best. The main thing to remember is that you need to do whatever you can to look great for your wedding day. This means do not overdo your make up, and make sure that you get a good night of sleep before your wedding day. Also use some common sense.
Statistics of the current poll(CLOSE)
Option | Votes(%) |
---|---|
1) Traditional | 37.96% |
2) Theme | 20.49% |
3) Casual | 20.48% |
4) Contemporary | 21.07% |
Saturday, February 27, 2010
changing seasons
Friday, February 26, 2010
Picnic Wedding Reception Supply List & Costs
Supplies:
For 6-10 people:
-1 picnic basket
-1 water pitcher
-6 to 10 plates
-6 to 10 drinking glasses
-Paper napkins, forks
-Tablecloth or blanket (blankets for younger guests who may want to sit on the grass)
If reusable plates and glasses are too expensive, use paper! Another way to cut costs is to just buy reusable items for the bridal party and parents' tables/baskets. Remember, though--if the wind picks up, your disposable items will go flying! Tablecloths can vary greatly on price. You may run into a sale and be able to cover each table for $5. Another option is to look for inexpensive fabric--$1.00/yard. Measure the tables before you search!
Talk to your favorite grocery store deli or restaurant about your food needs. This is a great job for your mother-in-law! An experienced grocery shopper may have more success getting a good deal on food!
Menu:
For each basket:
-Croissant Sandwiches
-Potato salad
-Fruit salad or watermelon slices
These are ideas, but work with food you like (you'll be eating the leftovers!) and any specials the deli can offer. To make an easier reception, use food that stores at the same temperature. Depending on the facilities at the park and how many volunteers you have, you could also serve chicken and corn on the cob.
To make the plain plastic containers from the deli more exciting--use your computer to make your own label. Bride & Groom's Passion Potato Salad, enjoy on July 31, 2008. Get creative!
Be sure to include serving spoons in the baskets! You can probably scrounge up enough serving spoons from the kitchens of the moms.
Guest's Perspective:
Guests will arrive at the park and be directed to a table. Assigned seating is recommended! Picnic baskets and water pitchers will be delivered to each table. Guests will take it from there! You can assign one person at each table to be the "server." He/She will open the basket, hand out the plates, forks, napkins, cups and... food!
The bride and groom can put written instructions inside the basket, announce over the music/sound system, or send pre-designated volunteers to the tables to give any further direction that may be needed.
Guests will be put at ease right away since they get to participate in serving the meal, and they don't have to WAIT in line to eat!
You can include a bottle of wine and an assortment of sodas in the baskets if water is not quenching enough. Iced tea or lemonade, in place of water, is another option. Be sure to have ice water on hand, though, for guests on special diets.
Put a large ziploc bag full of ice at the top of each basket to keep food cool while guests are seated. Ice can be put into the guests' cups to avoid giant bags of water at the end of the day.
Dessert
This is the fun part! Pie or ice cream? (Let's face it--your guests are probably sick of wedding cake, and it really doesn't fit on a sunny day.)
Put a whole pie in each basket, along with a knife and plastic serving spatula. These can be homemade pies or purchased from the store. Differing flavors may promote movement amongst the guests. :)
Set up an ice cream bar, manned by the bride and groom. This way everyone will get a chance to say hi to the new couple. Offer different ice cream choices that the bride and groom scoop out into cones when the guests are ready for dessert.
Visiting Guests
If ice cream scooping is too much work, the bride and groom can float around to each table while the guests eat.
Guests Mingling
By the time the meal is over each table will be feeling like family. Get help from your moms to figure out where to seat everyone. You can place matching relatives together. Bride's Aunt and Uncle and kids with Groom's Aunt and Uncle and kids. Or you can put complementing personalities together. Remember to put at least one friendly, outgoing person at each table!
Estimated Cost and Shopping List
If you are unable to stay within this budget for any item, look around! Borrow from moms and sisters. To make mismatched items more cohesive, tie a ribbon that matches the color of your wedding around it!
Supplies>> $340
$100 for 10 Picnic Baskets
$ 15 for 10 Water Pitchers
$ 75 for 100 Plates (buy on clearance!)
$ 75 for 100 Cups/Glasses
$ 25 for 200 Napkins (High-end white paper) and 200 Plastic Forks
$ 50 for 10 Table Coverings (butcher paper or tablecloths on clearance)
Food>> $460
$ 65 for 150 Croissants (try Costco or Sam's Club)
$ 75 for 12.5 pounds of Sliced Meat (assortment of Ham, Roast Beef, Turkey)
$ 75 for 12.5 pounds of Sliced Cheese (assortment of Cheddar, Pepperjack, Provolone)
$ 10 for 6 heads of lettuce
$ 50 for your choice of tomatoes, mayo, mustard, and other favorite sandwich toppings!
$ 70 for 7 Gallons of Potato Salad (homemade or deli)
$ 35 for 10 Small Watermelons
$ 80 for 7 Gallons of Fruit Salad (deli)
Dessert>> $60-95
$ 60 for 10 Pies
or
$ 65 for 13 Gallons of Ice Cream
$ 30 for 9 boxes of Ice Cream Cones (12/box)
Beverages>> $75-150
$ 50-100 for 10-20 Bottles of Wine
$ 25-50 for 100-200 Cans of Soda (watch for sales!)
DIY Favors: Paper Cake Slice
Find the simple instructions at Paper Source Blog.
Thursday, February 25, 2010
You're Engaged- Now What??
Once you've agreed to marry your sweetheart, contrary to popular belief, (and many commercials) the first order of business is informing the parents on each side of the family. Once both families have been informed and hopefully approve of the plans, you are free to scream it to the world.
Now begins the daunting tasks of of choosing your venue, making your guest list and the ever sensitive BRIDAL ATTENDANTS!!! As a professional consultant/planner I often remind couples that this is a very important part of their wedding day and shouldn't be looked at lightly.
Due to the amount of responsibility and expense, especially for the honor attendants. Keep this in mind when asking; make sure ALL participants know up front what you are expecting of them. Give everyone plenty of time to plan by asking soon after you choose a date and venue. Invite them to participate in a way that allows them to decline gracefully if they feel they're not up to the task, and don't insist on an immediate answer.
If anyone is unable to afford the cost of their formal wear or other expenses you can either offer to help out and put them in a role that isn't so taxing on the pocket. Pick the right number of attendants for the size and style of your wedding. Sizes can vary from having only honor attendants to as many as twelve. Children between the ages of 10-14 should be Jr's attendants and ages 3-7 are appropriate for ring bearers and flower girls.
Whatever you decide, don't feel you must choose an equal number of men and women. It's your wedding!
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Wednesday, February 24, 2010
Why?
This question has seemed to cover my thoughts lately? Why this? Why that? It is as if God is challenging me to not just take what I have always heard and believed for 'truth' but to ask why, as well as asking 'why' toward the subtle sins in my life.
Why does God call us not to sin?
Why does He have me where I am in life now?
Why am I so scared of doing HIS will and not my own?
Why are things given and then taken away?
Why do we always want what we don't have?
Why does God ask questions that He already knows the answer to?
Sometimes I am just amazed at the amount that I do not know. I may think that I have at least one answer to a question or problem and then God shows me that I really have no clue. This is ultimately a need to give COMPLETE control over to God in all areas. Be willing to say "I don't know" and give it up to Christ. Be willing to allow Him to take the reins. Basically it comes down to Proverbs 3:4-5 "Trust in God with all your heart and lean not unto your own understanding. In all thy ways acknowledge Him and He will direct your path." Any why question can be answered with this simple verse. It is not of my understanding but His alone! He is the ultimately the 'why' of all!
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If you could go back in time 10 years and tell your younger self something, what would it be?
Be mindful of your money, dream big and have a back-up plan, trust your instincts, face problems head on, open up more, keep your priorities in sight...I was 21 then, so that should explain that ;p
Entertaining Tips: Food
Something easy, cheap and delicious your guests will go bonkers over.
Chicken Salad Cups
Buy Frozen Filo cups, and bake according to the package (8-10 minutes, I think) - let cool and fill with your favorite chicken salad, make the chicken the day before, or buy it pre-packaged.
Fill the cups about 10-20 minutes before your first guest is set to arrive.
Then sprinkle with your favorite fresh herb if you have some on hand, if not dried parsley will do just fine.
Tuesday, February 23, 2010
Real Simple Weddings 2010 Giveaway....
I had come across A Frugal Friend's Real Simple Giveaway and couldn't help myself. You can ask F, every time we go to Vons, I look longingly at the bridal magazines wishing that I could pick up a few. So, in my attempt to enter into the Giveaway and give you guys a chance to win a free copy of Real Simple Weddings 2010, I decided to write a post about it. Because if they can save my daily life, I'm sure that they can save my sanity for my wedding! Check out A Frugal Friend's rules for the Giveaway and best of luck to all of us!
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